I always keep a mask of immaturity & childishness because it
shows the real character of person in front of you.
Be mature behave like mature, maturity
is important, mature person can do this can do that.
So 1st question is what is true meaning of maturity?
Is there any set of protocols, procedures or is there any standard available to measure maturity?
Why maturity is so much important? No one can’t live with maturity?
when peoples talk about maturity I always feels like — What???
ok! we know that girls mature earlier than a boy. so here we are comparing between girl & boy and here maturity standard is how fast they can understand things how fast they can react according to age and situations. People rate maturity level according to their experience of life.
so let us take an example:
People say that girl & boy became mature after marriage when they gets responsibility of each other & family, ok accepted…
but after some time when they start fighting on small matters I don’t know what maturity do at that time. then mature peoples came in picture they suggest them to resolve problem like mature peoples.
but if they fail then people out of their suggestions bank comes up with the idea of separations following which a happy couple influenced with the matured decisions given by some matured
persons tend to fall a prey of alcohol and smoking, they try to stay away from each other
others somehow create poison in their life so what kind of maturity is this?
I mean it’s their life why other tells them what to do what to not others decision make their & their kids life
hell. so who is mature enough to resolve these problems?
Every person has a Physco inside him/her, they can be Physco for anything like Money, power, love, lust, luxury or
anything. if we take a group of 100 peoples and ask them about their Physco 70% of them were already Physco about money, power, love & lust. 20 % want to be like that, 5% will criticize them & rest of 5% don’t know about anything.
Everyone has their own sense everyone has their own maturity level they work according to it but we humans always
compare others maturity level with ours.
since childhood people use to say elders were much more mature than us, they were mature enough to take right decision.
Elders’ maturity level at the time of decision making in Politics/ khap /panchayats shows the real maturity level of peoples which always freak me out.
I accept that life teach us so many things life experience is equal to maturity levels but no one can be right every time in every decision whether he or she had same experience or not.
I live my own life I learn from my mistakes I have question and I have answers for same I listen to other but always make my own decision. I don’t care about what will people say. people have a habit to say. so I can’t stop them but I can’t measure my level
with them I can’t run on their thinking. I am mature enough to understand, to judge. I can make my own decision & can modify according to my need.
People call me immature but I am happy with that because this shows the real character real face behind mask of others.
I tried to be mature but most of time I hurt my loved one’s because of my maturity.
lastly here is nothing to judge maturity, maturity is equal to life experience, learning from mistakes & decision making. Everyone has different views different experiences
listen to them then make your own decision.